Let the scathing emails begin...

This is the scathing email that started it all! It was written in November 2007 in a frustrated effort to call out a former "friend." I believe the scathing email speaks for itself. It's long, but enjoy...


"There are really only a few things to say. I’ll start out by saying I’m writing this on behalf of all of your old friends. You know, the ones who stood by you through all the tough times in high school and college. The ones who continued to stand by you after college when you were in bad relationships or having hard times. The ones who took you in when your mom kicked you out. The ones who shunned a certain friend to accommodate you and your needs at your bachelorette party. The same party that you seemed not to even want to be at, despite, your pleading and hard stance of needing to go to Vegas for your bachelorette party. Even though these friends didn’t keep in constant contact with you, they still showed up to your bachelorette party and stayed, until the end, at your wedding. They called on your birthday and invited you and Tim out only to be turned down. You remember us, don’t you Anne? At one point in time we were all friends and while I understand that relationships ebb and flow, you put forth absolutely no effort. Do you realize Jessica and I are not friends with Erin anymore? Maybe our relationship with Erin wasn’t the healthiest, but it was a friendship none the less. Don’t try to divert the blame from yourself. It won’t work.

Do you remember before your bachelorette party when I spoke to you on behalf of the girls regarding your bachelorette party? Do you recall what I told you about your actions, or lack thereof, when it came to the energy and time investment in these friendships? In case you forgot, I’ll remind you. I told you that we all felt that you did not give anything to the relationships and we felt slighted that you would demand us go to Vegas for your party. You were upset because I told you that we didn’t feel close to you and that you didn’t value our friendships. You countered with the fact that you just really wanted to go to Vegas for your party. You said that you would make an effort to change and include us in your life. You did—for a period of time. Then your wedding came along and we all showed up, even Erin. She showed up knowing that you were the reason she and Jessica and I were no longer speaking. Since your wedding I’ve seen you twice. The rest of the girls saw you once…at Nicole’s wedding. Once when I stayed at your house before an eye appointment and once at Nicole’s wedding. But, no one got to talk to you at Nicole’s wedding because your coward ass left Nicole’s wedding when dinner started, despite the fact that all of us, including Nicole, stayed until the end of yours. I left you a message on your birthday, with no return call. Summer came and went and I thought for sure you’d call me on my birthday. But guess what Anne, I was wrong. Oh, you also forgot Dee’s birthday and Jessica’s birthday. For someone who said they were going to make an effort you sure suck at it.

I know you’re probably upset as you read this; however, I could not go on without letting you know how we feel. You should not bother feeling sorry for yourself and try to justify your inaction. With today’s modern technologies of phone, email, text message, regular mail and carrier pigeon you have no excuse for not getting in touch. I have not changed my phone number in years, neither has Jessica. If you’re thinking that you didn’t call because we don’t have anything in common anymore, you’d probably be right; however, that didn’t seem to matter before your wedding when it was YOUR birthday and we all came out, much less your bachelorette party and wedding. Please don’t try to justify your inaction by telling me you just got married and you have to work on your relationship with your husband. That’s total bullshit and I do not accept it.

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention how shitty it was of you to not help Jessica when she forgot her camera at your Aunt’s house. You simply dismissed it as her fault for leaving it there. It’s not like she left it on the subway or at a store. She left it at the house of a family member of yours. You and Jessica have been through a lot and even though the camera is no big deal to you, it was to her. While you did grab a camera you thought was Jessica’s, and was in fact, mine; you didn’t do anything after the fact to contact your Aunt to remedy the situation.

I would like to conclude this letter by saying I wish you the best. Please don’t bother replying because none of us want to hear your excuses. We’ve out grown each other and have moved on. I just hope you can take this as a wake up call for the friends you do have left.


p.s. Even though this doesn’t go along with any of my other points, Jessica knows that while you and the 1st Tim were together you showed and then emailed him risqué photos that she had taken of herself and PASSWORD protected on her computer. Talk about low! I guess we really are better off."

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Shalom biches! I'm going to skip all the bullshit about "welcome to my blog" etc. in favor of jumping right in. Scathing emails.com is the brainchild of me, MeanGirl1, and one of my best friends, DD. One racy Friday night we were having our usual drunken Mario night and i was ranting about something or another and 'scathing emails.com, because sometimes fuck you just isn't enough' flew out of my mouth. Crickets were heard and then fits of laughter came about. And, from that moment on, we knew what we had to do. This blog will be a combination of venting about douche bag people, posting scathing emails (encouraged!) and whatever the fuck else I feel like. Since I'm recovering from a nasty bout with strep throat I am going to cut this short. Tune in often to see what shenanigans I've been up to. G'night.